If you read my blog, you’ll notice patterns. I seem to write about the same thing more or less. That’s not because I have a boring life, it’s because if you do anything and you’re moderately successful at it.. you know that it’s all about patterns.
You find something that works for you, and you repeat.
How many times do you come across something where a company or person has changed their style or what they do? Trying to make things better, they end up making it worse and now, you don’t much care. I’ve seen this a few times with food products, tv shows, I suppose it’s something that happens often if you think about it.
When Bryci.com flipped from nudity to her with dildos etc, we had a handful of people write in that they weren’t pleased. That Bryci didn’t “need” to go there etc. They like many others made the assumption that she must not have been doing well or else she would’t have flipped to a more graphic style
The real reason was much easier.. shooting with a dildo is much better than shooting without one. Without, you’re busting your ass trying to pose, and you don’t want to seem like a ‘model’ because people have stereotypes regarding some models. So you pose but you’re trying not to pose… make sense? Of course fucking not. Doesn’t make sense to the girl either… it’s not easy. If you offer a flesh like cock though, blame.. easy to shoot now and possible have some fun as well.
Had zero to do with how her site was doing and everything to do with how easy it was to shoot. I was there, I can say this with 1000% certainty. I can also point you to other models that did this exact thing for the same reasons. Same shit happened when we flipped to hardcore. There were some naive people that felt we did it because things must have been not going well. That of course is false, we flipped to it because riddle me this.. if you’re posing with a flesh looking cock that looks real… is it really that out there to just use the real thing? I mean, you’re implying the real thing so why not say fuck it? That was Bryci’s mindset, and she was fine with it so here we are.
Now, my bringing this up is pointing out how some felt we messed up a perfectly good thing. Problem with that mindset, is that from day one, we have never done what anyone has asked within the confines of Bryci.com
Bryci does what she wants. Always has, always will. She has made her call from day one. I’m not her manager and never have been. I think managers in this industry are needed if you work in porn/porn where you need to go to set, get hired for shoots etc. if you’re shooting for your own website, where you call your own shots… why on earth would you have or need a manager? (you wouldn’t).
We didn’t change things because we serenading a boost in income, we changed things to have more fun. Make things more intimate and explore our sex life. So far, so good.
Still, getting back on point… my blogs seem to be the same damn blog day in, day out, which is why you don’t see them day after day. Nobody has time for that shit. I write about work work work. If I am not writing about work, I’m writing a pep talk to people, or myself, or a friend. Reason? I’m a passionate person and if I see an opportunity to help someone, I generally take it. Don’t mistake me here, I’m not claiming to be something I am not. I’m far from perfect, I fuck up all the time. I try and learn from my errors as best I can, like anyone else. Thing is, I do have some areas of expertise that others may not have so if I see a chance to help someone not make an error I have, I’d be an asshole not to help them.
What is weird, is that I have found some people will be positive until the point that you’re doing great and they feel the spotlight isn’t on them anymore. At that point they stop helping, they stop talking, they shell up.
One of the things I love about my friends, is when they’re helpful. Help your fellow man if you learn something that would benefit their life, ya know? nobody is perfect but odds are you know a lot of things I don’t. Perhaps you can save me some headache figuring something out? That’s all I’m saying…. if you help, and I help.. we both win.
Want to know what lens I used for something? Ask. Want to know how I achieved this or that effect? Ask. Life is supposed to be fun, remember?
Anyway….
My blogs are often of the same recipe. True.
Me wanting to be uncensored but still holding back here or there. Me wanting to talk about something we’re doing I am excited about but I don’t want to come off like some bragging bitch. Me wanting to share some behind the scenes details of the last time Bryci and I filmed, but of course, I’m going to get at lest one hater from that.
If someone isn’t telling me I am bragging, they’re saying my cock is small.
When I see guys commenting on cock size it makes me smile. How insecure with yourself are you when you openly criticize another man’s junk? Porn stars get hired because they have huge cocks or can shoot on command. I can not to either, I can’t magically grow to 12 inches and I don’t have control over Bryci’s ability. She owns my ass, pure and simple. When she says cum, I cum. I’m alright with the negative comments, they’re few and far between and I assume they’re just angry teen boys. I’m the douche with their dream girl, I understand. I’m alright with this.
So sure, when writing a blog… it’s a myriad of what shall Iw rite about today? I have five topics, I reach into my bag of dreams and voila, a blog is born. Happy? I am.
We’re doing more explicit promo content lately, so if you know me, this is probably where you stop coming to my blog. Honestly, doesn’t phase me. When you work in porn, you see your friend’s parts. No biggie. I can still hang out with Katie, Talia, Aleah or Cherry just fine. Doesn’t phase me. Have they seen me? probably, and they give zero fucks, much like I of them. It’s work, and we love what we do. I get people asking if Bryci and I are going to double team Katie or Talia.
That’s not happening, ever. These girls are like my little sisters in a very warped porntastic step brother than never sees them way. I watch over them, and my ass is a one woman man. Sorry to kill the fantasy. Sometimes, I won’t deny something.. I’d say.. you never know! Because this keeps you wondering but not his topic, sorry.. no playing around. I do know, and I do know that shit isn’t happening. Nothing personal to the ladies, they know this but it goes both ways, I’m like a big brother to them.
So back to the promo.. we’re having more fun.
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This set can be seen here: http://girlupdates.com/Models/Bryci/Credit
Just wait until you see the trouble we get into with this bad boy…
I know 99% of us don’t have 4K anything and we won’t for some time.. but when you cut a master in 4K and then create the 1080p version *FROM* that 4K footage… daaaaaamn sharp and then some.
With fall here, we’ve got to be more careful not to freeze when shooting outdoors. Those of you with cocks know cold weather and the penile are not good friends. It makes me laugh that this is my biggest concern for the weeks ahead. #keeptheydickhard
Ah well, I hadn’t blogged in some time, I thought I should at least login and say the same thing again.
Hope your weekend is going well!
- JD